Climb…..
Climb stands for Childrens Lives Include Moments of Bravery.
What is the goal of CLIMB?
Children will learn:
- that cancer is “not their fault”
- they are not alone
- coping strategies
- about cancer and treatment options
- how to express their feelings
- how to manage anger
- to communicate better with the parent or grandparent with cancer
This is the title/information of class that we have signed up to take with Stephen and Freddy. It will take four weeks and meets at University Hospital. These classes are set up for the children to learn about their parents cancer and how to deal with their feelings. It’s an interactive group therapy that teaches about cancer and more importantly shows the kids that they are not alone. It uses art, play therapy and group discussion help the kids learn about what to expect. We are also considering another class called Lemonade and Cancer. This class is a one time class that gives the kids the opportunity to see the hospital and the treatments that their parents might be participating in. I think these two classes will put something tangible in front of them and help them express themselves with us.
Lynese and I felt this would be a good idea to do before I start my therapy. I hope it better prepares them for the next year and makes it easier for them to talk with us. I admit that I didn’t think I would be at this place in my life that I need to prepare my kids for a difficult period in our life and it sucks! You learn as a parent that your kids are little sponges that want nothing more than to make you happy and it crushes them when they think they are failing at this. I want to do everything in my ability to make sure that they don’t think they are failing me or that any of this is their fault. As a parent all I want is to protect and guide my sons. It does hurt that they are facing a difficult time in their lives and that it involves me. I realize that I have no control over the base of this situation, but it does not make the pain any less. I really hope that this class will help them and us.
How awesome you are to participate in this class with your boys. In my job I work with children that do not have parents that help them travel through life’s tough times. Your boys are blessed to have you. Mike, you write so well, maybe this journey will inspire you and your boys to write a book for children.
Thanks for sharing. When I read your words it helps me stay connected with you, your family and I keep you all in my prayers.
Pat K